Meditation (compassion)

Meditation (compassion)

loving-kindness meditation, compassion meditation, empathy meditation, kindness meditation

Compassion meditation focuses on cultivating feelings of kindness and empathy toward yourself and others, fostering emotional resilience, reducing stress and strengthening connections with those around you.

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What is meditation (compassion)?

Compassion meditation (or metta meditation) is a practice that helps you nurture a sense of kindness, compassion and empathy – first for yourself, and then for others. This meditation guides you through extending these feelings outward, starting with loved ones, then acquaintances and eventually toward everyone, even people you might find difficult.

For beginners, compassion meditation can be a powerful way to develop emotional resilience and reduce negative feelings like anger or frustration. It’s simple but effective, helping to shift your mindset toward a more compassionate and understanding perspective. Whether you're looking to enhance your emotional wellbeing, deepen your relationships or develop a kinder outlook on life, compassion meditation offers a gentle yet profound way to do so.

Are you ready to feel that warm glow of self-compassion? Keep reading for more details to get you on the right track.

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Wellbeing benefits

Why meditation (compassion) is good for you

Compassion meditation fosters empathy and lifts mood. Regular practice builds emotional resilience, enhances self-awareness and reduces stress.

Compassion meditation helps reduce stress, anxiety and depression by fostering emotional balance. This practice encourages you to stay grounded during challenging times, leading to improved emotional stability and mental wellbeing (Hofmann et al., 2011).

Regularly practicing compassion meditation enhances empathy and kindness toward yourself and others. By developing a deeper understanding of others’ emotions, you can improve personal relationships and social connections (Weng et al., 2013).

This practice cultivates positive emotions like gratitude, compassion and kindness. By focusing on these feelings, compassion meditation shifts your mindset toward optimism and helps foster a sense of emotional wellbeing (Pace et al., 2009).

Compassion meditation helps improve focus and mental clarity by encouraging present-moment awareness. Practicing regularly reduces distractions and improves your ability to concentrate on important tasks (Hofmann et al., 2011).

Compassion meditation has been linked to lower inflammation and decreased cortisol levels. These effects support better heart health, reduce stress hormones and improve overall physical wellness (Pace et al., 2009).

Ways in

Self-led, one-on-one, or in a group

Whether you go it alone, join a group, or work 1:1 with a teacher, we’ve laid out what each path can look like.

Self-ledOne-on-oneGroup

Recommendation for first-timer

1st pick

Recommendation for first-timer Self-led

Ideal for beginners who prefer flexibility. Using apps, online videos, or guided scripts allows you to explore at your own pace. However, self-discipline is crucial to stay focused and consistently initiate the practice on your own.

3rd pick

Recommendation for first-timer One-on-one

Best for those wanting personalised support from a meditation teacher. 1:1 guidance ensures tailored feedback to help you deepen your practice effectively.

2nd pick

Recommendation for first-timer Group

Great for first-timers who enjoy a sense of community. The group’s shared focus can help you stay engaged and motivated.

Availability

Widely

Availability Self-led

Accessible anytime through apps, online videos, or written guides. You can practice anywhere, whenever it suits your schedule.

Widely

Availability One-on-one

Requires booking sessions with a personal meditation teacher, which may be in person or online. Timing depends on the teacher’s availability.

Limited

Availability Group

Typically available through meditation centres, community classes, or online platforms. Group sessions may follow a set schedule. As a stand alone technique it may be less common to find in group settings.

Average cost per session

Free or low cost

Average cost per session Self-led

Often free or low-cost, depending on the app, video, or written material you use.

There are plenty of free meditation resources available online. It will require you to search specifically for this technique in order to differentiate from other meditation options.

Expensive

Average cost per session One-on-one

Higher cost, typically $50 to $150 per session depending on the teacher’s experience and location, but the personalised feedback can be worth it.

Moderate costs

Average cost per session Group

Costs can range from $10 to $30 per session, depending on the location, instructor, and class size. Online group sessions may be lower-cost or free.

However, some community events may include this meditation style and be free for you to enjoy.

Special equipment required

None or minimal

Special equipment required Self-led

No special equipment needed. Just find a quiet space, and perhaps a cushion or chair for comfort.

None or minimal

Special equipment required One-on-one

Generally no special equipment needed.

You only need comfortable seating or space to sit.

None or minimal

Special equipment required Group

Usually no special equipment needed, but centres might provide mats or cushions. You only need comfortable seating or space to sit.

Potential for socialisation & community

Mostly solo

Potential for socialisation & community Self-led

Limited, as this is typically a solo practice. However, many apps and platforms have online communities where you can connect with others.

Social potential

Potential for socialisation & community One-on-one

Low socialisation, but the personalised relationship with your teacher allows for connection and one-on-one support. You get customised advice but less interaction with others.

Highly social

Potential for socialisation & community Group

High socialisation potential. Group settings foster a sense of community and shared experiences. Post-session discussions can deepen your understanding and feeling of connection.

Safety & skill building

Mixed results

Safety & skill building Self-led

Safe, though without immediate guidance, you may have questions or doubts as you progress. Skill building depends on your consistency and self-discipline in maintaining focus and self-starting each session.

Safe & fast

Safety & skill building One-on-one

Very safe, as your meditation teacher customises each session to your needs. You’ll build skills more quickly with direct feedback and personalised advice.

Safe & fast

Safety & skill building Group

Group sessions are guided, with an instructor providing structured advice. The group energy encourages focus and development of your meditation skills.

Space or privacy required

Minimal

Space or privacy required Self-led

Requires a quiet, undisturbed space at home or anywhere you can concentrate on the practice. Privacy is important for focus.

Minimal

Space or privacy required One-on-one

A private space is necessary for 1:1 sessions, whether at home or in your teacher’s studio. This creates a focused, personalised environment for growth.

Some required

Space or privacy required Group

Group settings usually provide a quiet, calm space but lack complete privacy. However, the collective environment helps boost concentration.

Ease of scheduling

Very flexible

Ease of scheduling Self-led

Extremely flexible. Self-led practice can be done at any time that fits your day, giving you total control over your schedule.

Need to plan

Ease of scheduling One-on-one

Somewhat flexible, depending on your teacher’s availability. Booking in advance allows for personalised scheduling, but flexibility will vary by teacher.

Quite rigid

Ease of scheduling Group

Less flexible, as group classes follow a set timetable.

Finding compassion meditation as a stand alone group session may be more difficult than other meditation styles.

You will need to plan ahead.

Setup time

Little to none

Setup time Self-led

Minimal setup required. Just find a quiet spot, sit comfortably, and begin with your chosen app, video, or script. However, self-led practice requires discipline to start the session and avoid procrastination.

Up to 30 mins

Setup time One-on-one

Moderate setup. Arriving at a centre or preparing for a class might take time. You may need to travel, settle in and prepare for a shared environment.

Over 30 mins

Setup time Group

Moderate setup. Arriving at a centre or preparing for a class might take time. You may need to travel, settle in and prepare for a shared environment.

Active practice time

Under 20 mins

Active practice time Self-led

Completely flexible, ranging from 5 to 30 minutes or more depending on the time you have and the app or script you're using.

Up to an hour

Active practice time One-on-one

Usually 30 to 60 minutes, tailored to your needs. A personal teacher will adjust the session length based on your progress and goals.

Up to an hour

Active practice time Group

Typically runs from 30 to 60 minutes in a group setting. Instructors guide the class, and you practice for the duration.

Check the agenda for the class, as this technique may be only a smaller portion of a longer meditation session and you will need to be prepared to stay for the full class time.

Unexpected advantages

Wholesome

Unexpected advantages Self-led

If you have a dog or cat, they often really enjoy being around people meditating, and you might get some extra nice cuddles from them.

Random

Unexpected advantages One-on-one

Working 1:1 with a teacher will definitely motivate you to concentrate because no one wants to start snoring in that setting!

Random

Unexpected advantages Group

Group meditation centres often have nice tea and the best biscuits for pre or post meditation snacks.

Academic research we rate

  1. The effects of loving-kindness and compassion meditation on life satisfaction: A systematic review and meta-analysis.

    Xiaodan Gu, Wenting Luo, Xinran Zhao, Yanyan Chen, Yuan Zheng, Jingyi Zhou, Xianglong Zeng, Luyi Yan, Yifei Chen, Xiuqing Zhang, Jing Lv, Yongqi Lang, Zilin Wang, Chenyu Gao, Yuanchen Jiang, Runze LiApplied psychology. Health and well-being2022

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    Gu, X., Luo, W., Zhao, X., Chen, Y., Zheng, Y., Zhou, J., Zeng, X., Yan, L., Chen, Y., Zhang, X., Lv, J., Lang, Y., Wang, Z., Gao, C., Jiang, Y., & Li, R. (2022). The effects of loving‐kindness and compassion meditation on life satisfaction: A systematic review and meta‐analysis. Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being, 14(3), 1081–1101. Portico. https://doi.org/10.1111/aphw.12367

  2. A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis of the Effects of Meditation on Empathy, Compassion, and Prosocial Behaviors

    Christina M. Luberto, Nina Shinday, Rhayun Song, Lisa L. Philpotts, Elyse R. Park, Gregory L. Fricchione, Gloria Y. YehMindfulness2018

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    Luberto, C. M., Shinday, N., Song, R., Philpotts, L. L., Park, E. R., Fricchione, G. L., & Yeh, G. Y. (2017). A Systematic Review and Meta-analysis of the Effects of Meditation on Empathy, Compassion, and Prosocial Behaviors. Mindfulness, 9(3), 708–724. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-017-0841-8

  3. Effects of Self-Compassion Training on Work-Related Well-Being: A Systematic Review

    Yasuhiro Kotera, William Van GordonFrontiers in Psychology2021

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    Kotera, Y., & Van Gordon, W. (2021). Effects of Self-Compassion Training on Work-Related Well-Being: A Systematic Review. Frontiers in Psychology, 12. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2021.630798

  4. Mindfulness, Compassion, and Self-Compassion Among Health Care Professionals: What's New? A Systematic Review

    Ciro Conversano, Rebecca Ciacchini, Graziella Orrù, Mariagrazia Di Giuseppe, Angelo Gemignani, Andrea PoliFrontiers in Psychology2020

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    Conversano, C., Ciacchini, R., Orrù, G., Di Giuseppe, M., Gemignani, A., & Poli, A. (2020). Mindfulness, Compassion, and Self-Compassion Among Health Care Professionals: What’s New? A Systematic Review. Frontiers in Psychology, 11. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.01683

  5. The effect of loving-kindness meditation on positive emotions: a meta-analytic review

    Xianglong Zeng, Cleo P. K. Chiu, Rong Wang, Tian P. S. Oei, Freedom Y. K. LeungFrontiers in Psychology2015

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    Zeng, X., Chiu, C. P. K., Wang, R., Oei, T. P. S., & Leung, F. Y. K. (2015). The effect of loving-kindness meditation on positive emotions: a meta-analytic review. Frontiers in Psychology, 6. https://doi.org/10.3389/fpsyg.2015.01693

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  1. Effects of compassion training on brain responses to suffering others

    Yoni K Ashar, Jessica R Andrews-Hanna, Joan Halifax, Sona Dimidjian, Tor D WagerSocial Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience2021

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    Ashar, Y. K., Andrews-Hanna, J. R., Halifax, J., Dimidjian, S., & Wager, T. D. (2021). Effects of compassion training on brain responses to suffering others. Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience, 16(10), 1036–1047. https://doi.org/10.1093/scan/nsab052

  2. Self-Compassion Interventions to Target Secondary Traumatic Stress in Healthcare Workers: A Systematic Review

    Annabel Rushforth, Mia Durk, Gabby A. A. Rothwell-Blake, Ann Kirkman, Fiona Ng, Yasuhiro KoteraInternational Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health2023

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    Rushforth, A., Durk, M., Rothwell-Blake, G. A. A., Kirkman, A., Ng, F., & Kotera, Y. (2023). Self-Compassion Interventions to Target Secondary Traumatic Stress in Healthcare Workers: A Systematic Review. International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, 20(12), 6109. https://doi.org/10.3390/ijerph20126109

  3. Positive Emotion Correlates of Meditation Practice: a Comparison of Mindfulness Meditation and Loving-Kindness Meditation

    Barbara L. Fredrickson, Aaron J. Boulton, Ann M. Firestine, Patty Van Cappellen, Sara B. Algoe, Mary M. Brantley, Sumi Loundon Kim, Jeffrey Brantley, Sharon SalzbergMindfulness2017

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    Fredrickson, B. L., Boulton, A. J., Firestine, A. M., Van Cappellen, P., Algoe, S. B., Brantley, M. M., Kim, S. L., Brantley, J., & Salzberg, S. (2017). Positive Emotion Correlates of Meditation Practice: a Comparison of Mindfulness Meditation and Loving-Kindness Meditation. Mindfulness, 8(6), 1623–1633. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-017-0735-9

  4. Psychological and Physiological Effects of Compassionate Mind Training: a Pilot Randomised Controlled Study

    Marcela Matos, Cristiana Duarte, Joana Duarte, José Pinto-Gouveia, Nicola Petrocchi, Jaskaran Basran, Paul GilbertMindfulness2017

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    Matos, M., Duarte, C., Duarte, J., Pinto-Gouveia, J., Petrocchi, N., Basran, J., & Gilbert, P. (2017). Psychological and Physiological Effects of Compassionate Mind Training: a Pilot Randomised Controlled Study. Mindfulness, 8(6), 1699–1712. https://doi.org/10.1007/s12671-017-0745-7

  5. A Meta-Analysis of Compassion-Based Interventions: Current State of Knowledge and Future Directions

    James N. Kirby, Cassandra L. Tellegen, Stanley R. SteindlBehavior therapy2017

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    Kirby, J. N., Tellegen, C. L., & Steindl, S. R. (2017). A Meta-Analysis of Compassion-Based Interventions: Current State of Knowledge and Future Directions. Behavior Therapy, 48(6), 778–792. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.beth.2017.06.003

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Has your interest been piqued for this heart warming meditation technique? This activity is great for everyone. And the good news? It can be easily woven into your day with short practice sessions that still pack a punch in the way of benefits! Check out the rest of the information below so you can make this meditation your own!

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What you might experience

You sit down to start compassion meditation, but it feels strange at first. Focusing on kindness and empathy seems unfamiliar. You might be wondering how to create those feelings. Beginning with someone you care about, you slowly imagine sending them warmth and kindness. It’s ok if it feels a bit unusual at first, but you can expect as you settle in, the process will start to make sense.

As you visualise offering kindness, your mind wanders to other thoughts – work, errands, distractions. Staying focused is harder than expected, and you might feel frustrated. It’s common to struggle at first. Be kind to yourself. Gently guide your focus back to the feelings of compassion each time. With repetition, this part of the practice becomes more manageable.

As you continue, you may notice a subtle shift. Relaxing into the practice, extending compassion toward yourself and others becomes more natural. Visualising kindness feels easier, and a sense of connection grows—not just with those you're focusing on, but with the practice itself. This change can be gentle yet perceptible. And it’s also ok if you’re not feeling anything much at all!

After spending time offering kindness to loved ones, acquaintances, and even difficult people, the practice feels smoother. Compassion begins to flow more easily, and while it’s still challenging, it feels more intuitive. This sense of ease is a sign that you’re building on your practice, and it becomes more rewarding over time.

As the session concludes, you may experience a sense of lightness, as if a weight has been lifted. The practice of extending compassion to yourself and others often leaves you feeling more open and at ease. While these changes might be subtle, they're significant – the meditation is designed to foster a deeper sense of connection, preparing you to carry these compassionate feelings into your everyday life.

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