Bursts/Self-Compassion Evening
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Self-Compassion Evening

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Duration 1h 16mActivities 4Quality Good 89.3%Difficulty Manageable 0

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Settle breath

Breath work

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Helen's therapeutic protocol starts with the body before the mind. Ten minutes of slow nasal breathing as the day is coming to a close. Self-compassion lands easier when the body is starting to relax.

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12mins
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1 min
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10 mins
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1 min

Bearmore’s thoughts on doing breath work before reading (mindful)

This can be a good pairing because a calm, focused state from breath work can carry into mindful reading and sustained attention.

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Easy read

Reading (mindful)

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Twenty minutes with a book that doesn't ask anything too much of you. Helen has spoken about reading-as-rest as one of the practices she makes sure she gets to most evenings. Fiction or essays; nothing that’s trying to improve you.

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22mins
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1 min
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20 mins
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Bearmore’s thoughts on doing reading (mindful) before self-guided inquiry

This works well because reading often surfaces themes that inquiry can explore more deeply.

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Friend's question

Self-guided inquiry

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Helen's signature inquiry: what would I say to a friend who had a day like I did? Sit with it for fifteen minutes. The answer is often softer than the one you were giving yourself.

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21mins
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3 mins
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15 mins
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Bearmore’s thoughts on doing self-guided inquiry before journaling

This pairing is especially effective because writing can help capture raw ideas before they fade or turn into the same thoughts cycling again.

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A short page

Journaling

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Fifteen minutes writing about what came up in your inquiry. Helen often coaches writing in the second person to yourself, the way you'd write to someone you love. The writing doesn’t need to be eloquent.

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21mins
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3 mins
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15 mins
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3 mins